callistra: Fuschia from Sinfest crying her heart out next to Hell's flames (Default)
callistra ([personal profile] callistra) wrote2007-03-28 11:03 am

I guess today is a weepy day

I just saw the footage on TV of the swimmer being attacked by her father. I hope he gets put away. People need to know that's NOT RIGHT.

I have a funeral on Friday.

I'm so not a ball of chirpiness today. All I want to do is cry and comfort eat, neither of which is good.

*sigh*

And I have to clean tears off my glasses again.

[identity profile] girliejones.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 04:23 am (UTC)(link)
That footage is pretty disturbing. And the worst of it is he is her father - surely she will have to go home with him? And also - that this goes on all the time when noone hasa camera round to record it.

[identity profile] callistra.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
*rrrgh*
incoherent right now sorry.
Will tryand say what i was trying to say later after a nap.

[identity profile] callistra.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 07:43 am (UTC)(link)
Ok, coherence has returned! I'm not 100% sure as to what my exact point was going to be, but apparently the police were there within an hour, the swimming organization was majorly pissed off they didn't get notified first, daddy got taken to a station for question, daughter got taken to a hotel for questioning, and the court case begins tomorrow with apparent sentencing by Sunday at the latest.

And yes, this happens around us all the time. At the dinner we did the other day for a women's refuge, the most interesting comment was made by the counsellor, who was saying that no one expects victims of terrorists to free themselves, and yet our society seems to think women should be able to. There's been a lot of discussion about that.

[identity profile] girliejones.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 07:44 am (UTC)(link)
(I should have come to that dinner - I don't think I knew it was for a women's refuge)

[identity profile] callistra.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 07:46 am (UTC)(link)
It's cool, I am sure there will be more.
:-)
It will be great to meet you, but I believe your attending Swancon, and we have enough overlap with friends that I am sure we might have seen each other before.

[identity profile] girliejones.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 07:48 am (UTC)(link)
We have met (at Fandomedia) but we will have a proper introduction at Swancon so you feel comfortable hassling me about such events in the future as this is actually an issue I am passionate about!

[identity profile] callistra.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 07:52 am (UTC)(link)
LOL
I have no shame in hassling people for things that I'm passionate about. (Come to Femmeconne! It's awesome!) But I do prefer a pull form of advertising rather than push.

But cool!
:-)
I'll be the one proudly walking around with a 19mo shaped hole next to me. :-) We're bringing him in on the Thursday, but I will be completely surprised when we leave him with his Grandparents on the Friday!

[identity profile] girliejones.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 07:58 am (UTC)(link)
I should come to Femmeconne, I know.

So I should recognise you by the lack of something? Hmmm..

[identity profile] callistra.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 08:03 am (UTC)(link)
foine

It'll work out.
:-)

I have glasses, short brown hair, huge grin, big boobs, big everything, and will probably be mostly sitting in a corner chatting with people or in the bar. We're at the acacia.... um.... yeah. And if you see a rapid show of women flashing their bras, it's usually because I started it. So I'll be in there somewhere.

[identity profile] girliejones.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 08:04 am (UTC)(link)
but I'll be running the other way.

I'll come up and introduce myself - else you'll recognise me at the other end of the bar.

[identity profile] callistra.livejournal.com 2007-03-28 08:06 am (UTC)(link)
Unless you're lying on your back with "dreamwalker" written next to you, I got no chance.
:-)

But I expect some of my handy friends might help out.

[identity profile] mynxii.livejournal.com 2007-03-30 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
I can also introduce you :)

[identity profile] girliejones.livejournal.com 2007-03-30 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
That too!